Saturday, April 26, 2008

It's Scary to be a Kid by Dr. Parker

Found this on WebMD http://blogs.webmd.com/healthy-children/2006/03/your-childs-fears-banishing-ogre.html

It struck a chord with me cuz I am always struggling to imagine things from Speck's POV.

It's scary to be a kid because:

  • You are little and everyone else is huge.
  • You feel powerless to affect the world in the way you want (of course, parents may beg to differ).
  • In your short life, you have been buffeted around by forces you can neither control nor understand.
  • You are pretty clueless as to how and why things happen -- especially bad things. It's all kind of magical, and magic can always have a dark side.
  • You haven't had enough experience to anticipate how things are going to turn out.
  • You are egocentric, so you assume that everything that happens (especially bad things) will happen to you and because of you.
  • You want to be independent, but lessening the close reliance on your parents, while thrilling, is also terrifying.

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